Negative Effects of Mobile Phones
Negative Effects of Mobile Phones
Question:
I have three daughters. The eldest is sixteen years old, the middle one is eleven and the youngest is eight years old. I have no son. My eldest daughter has been bothering me for a year now. To ensure good studies after college, I enrolled her in a tuition center. There, my daughter befriended a classmate. Both of them constantly communicate with each other on the phone and text each other, especially at night they used to message each other for many hours. When I try to stop my daughter, she misbehaves with me. My husband works in a factory, sometimes his duty is in morning, sometimes in evening, and sometimes at night. He gets very angry easily. If I tell him about our daughter, he will take her out of college and tuition. I want my daughter to continue her education seriously and to stop wasting time on her mobile phone.
Answer:
I have three daughters. The eldest is sixteen years old, the middle one is eleven and the youngest is eight years old. I have no son. My eldest daughter has been bothering me for a year now. To ensure good studies after college, I enrolled her in a
tuition center. There, my daughter befriended a classmate. Both of them constantly communicate with each other on the phone and text each other, especially at night they used to message each other for many hours. When I try to stop my daughter, she misbehaves with me. My husband works in a factory, sometimes his duty is in morning, sometimes in evening, and sometimes at night. He gets very angry easily. If I tell him about our
daughter, he will take her out of college and tuition.
I want my daughter to continue her education seriously and to stop wasting time on her mobile phone.
Answer:
Before going to sleep, recite Surah Buruj (85), Ayaat 21-22
بَلْ هُوَ قُرْاٰنٌ مَّجِيْدٌ O فِىْ لَوْحٍ مَّحْفُوْظٍ O [Bal huwa qur-anun majeedun Fee lawhin mahfoothin ]
forty-one times. recite Durood Sharif seven times before and after and pray for your daughter's obedience to her parents and utilize her time positive and constructive activities. Continue this wazeefa for at least forty days. Along with this, maintain a friendly attitude with your daughter. Instead of forcing her, try to explain things to her with love and kindness. Make her believe that you understand her emotions and will always be considerate of her feelings in the future. This trusting and friendly behavior between mother and daughter not only builds trust and confidence for daughters, but also for the entire family.
بَلْ هُوَ قُرْاٰنٌ مَّجِيْدٌ O فِىْ لَوْحٍ مَّحْفُوْظٍ O
[Bal huwa qur-anun majeedun Fee lawhin mahfoothin ]