Female boss
Female boss
Question:
My husband has been working in a private institution for ten years. A year ago, the boss in charge of the husband was transferred from his position. The person who replaced him is a woman and my husband finds it very difficult to deal with her. She frequently becomes angry without any apparent reason and belittles others over trivial matters. The entire department where my husband works has grown frustrated with her behavior. Over the past month, she has persistently harassed my husband regarding a particular issue. Every day, she summons him to her office and reprimands him. Whenever my husband attempts to explain, her anger only intensifies. She makes comments such as, "Are you capable of being in this position or not?","I know how to deal with people like you."
Answer:
My husband has been working in a private institution for ten years. A year ago, the boss in charge of the husband was
transferred from his position. The person who replaced him is a woman and my husband finds it very difficult to deal with
her. She frequently becomes angry without any apparent reason and belittles others over trivial matters. The entire department where my husband works has grown frustrated with her
behavior.
Over the past month, she has persistently harassed my husband regarding a particular issue. Every day, she summons him to her office and reprimands him. Whenever my husband
attempts to explain, her anger only intensifies.
She makes comments such as, "Are you capable of being in this position or not?","I know how to deal with people like you."
Answer:
Women are making significant strides in higher education, with their participation in various sectors of the economy consistently increasing. The majority of women excel as employees and officers, demonstrating not only diligence and dedication in fulfilling their responsibilities but also actively fostering a positive work environment. However, it is disheartening to see that some women in positions of authority mistreat their subordinates, particularly male colleagues. In my view, these lady officers lack empathy, finding comfort in scolding and humiliating their male subordinates. Similarly, some male officers succumb to negative behaviors fueled by arrogance and pride. Regardless of gender, it is essential for everyone to behave with respect and dignity, avoiding unnecessary harshness that can damage their self-esteem.For spiritual treatment, Before going to sleep, recite from verse 134 of Surah Al-Imran (chapter 3):
وَالْكَاظِمِينَ الْغَيْظَ وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ ۗ وَاللَّهُ يُحِبُّ الْمُحْسِنِينَO
Recite Durood Sharif Eleven times before and after. and pray for her better behavior. Continue this practice for a minimum of forty days. On every Thursday, serve food at least three deserving persons.
وَالْكَاظِمِينَ الْغَيْظَ وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ ۗ وَاللَّهُ يُحِبُّ الْمُحْسِنِينَO
Recite Durood Sharif Eleven times before and after.
and pray for her better behavior.
Continue this practice for a minimum of forty days. On every Thursday, serve food at least three deserving persons.